UMEMULO
Umemulo is a traditional Zulu coming of age ceremony
for women, it is an important ritual that celebrates a young girl’s journey
into womanhood. This ceremony is done by the girl’s family and it is conducted
by the father of the girl or the old uncle if the father is not around.
This ritual involves a lot of work by so many people
who are going to be part of it, there must be a cow when this ceremony is
conducted and a Zulu traditional beer to please the ancestors. This ceremony is
done when the woman is in her 21 years of age, people think that only a virgin
young woman is allowed to have this kind of ceremony, women with children also
gets this ceremony.
When is young woman undergoes this ceremony old women
teach her the values of life and how to respect her body and culture, but most
importantly how to respect her parents and even other parents who are not her
parents, as we all know that saying that says ‘umntwana wam ngumntwana wakho’.
There are other young girls who accompany the
celebrated woman and they sing and dance to traditional songs. The woman gets
presents from her family and her friends, her head is filled with money as the
people stick it in.
The father then spills the girl with bile from the cow
and also teach her more values.